Dear Womenfolk,

In a world where many strive for love, companionship, and validation, I urge you to remember the incredible power that resides within you. The beauty of your existence is not defined by your need for someone else, but by the strength, grace, and independence you carry within yourself.

Don’t be a woman who needs a man, because your value is not hinged on another person’s presence. Be a woman who is whole, complete, and fulfilled in her own right, living out her purpose with confidence and joy. The strength you exhibit when you chase your dreams, stand by your principles, and nurture your self-worth is what attracts the right people into your life. It makes you the woman a man needs, not out of dependence, but out of mutual respect, admiration, and partnership.

Being the woman a man needs doesn’t mean sacrificing your identity or bending to fit someone else’s ideals. It means being someone who challenges, uplifts, and inspires, because you stand firm in your value and worth. As women, we should aim to be the kind of people others can count on, but never to the extent of losing ourselves.

So, I encourage you to nurture your strengths, grow in your wisdom, and walk in your truth. Never let society dictate that you are incomplete on your own. You are enough, and in embracing this, you become the woman that not only a man may need, but the world can’t help but respect and admire.

Keep shining, keep growing, and keep being the incredible woman that you are.

With much respect and admiration,

©️ James Ola Emiola-Dakobiri FIIM*
Founder and Chairman,
Suicide Prevention and Depression Support Foundation
✍🏽 james@spdsfoundation.org
☎️ 773-344-6313