Proverbs 16:28 says, “A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.” This verse speaks to the destructive force that lies in the misuse of words, specifically in spreading rumors and engaging in divisive conversations. We live in a time where relationships are easily fractured by idle talk, misunderstandings, and, most notably, gossip.

The Bible warns us here to be mindful of the power our words carry. A single whisper of gossip can tear apart friendships that have taken years to build. It can create rifts in families, divide communities, and stir up conflicts where there was once peace. But why does this happen? It’s because words have the unique ability to either build up or tear down.

The damage caused by gossip is not just limited to those directly involved. It sows seeds of distrust, anger, and bitterness in all who hear it, creating an environment where love and unity cannot thrive. Therefore, it is imperative that we guard our tongues, choosing words that encourage, heal, and bring people together rather than words that harm and destroy.

As we reflect on Proverbs 16:28, let us commit ourselves to being peacemakers. Instead of spreading conflict, let’s spread love. Instead of dividing people, let’s unite them. Be the person who speaks life into others, who promotes harmony, and who refuses to entertain or spread gossip. By doing so, you will honor God and strengthen the relationships around you.

©️ James Ola Emiola-Dakobiri FIIM
Founder and Chairman,
Suicide Prevention and Depression Support Foundation
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